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f you can imagine money as a person, you can begin to understand what money is like – what it likes to do, who it likes to be with and why it prefers some people to others.
Money Likes to be Liked
A client of mine had three jobs, was working very hard and couldn’t understand why she was constantly in debt. I asked her what she thought of very wealthy people.
“Oh, I hate them. You can’t trust any of them!” she said. She was aspiring to be something she hated and it didn’t work.
Would you go where you knew you were unwelcome? Would you associate with people who hate your friends? Of course not. And neither does money.
If you’re jealous of Richard Branson, distrustful of Rupert Murdoch, hate Sir Alan Sugar or hold negative thoughts about anyone with money, you’ll find that it avoids you.
So, change your mind. Start to see wealthy people in a new light – admire their successes, respect their achievements. Don’t look at their mansions, boats and helicopters with envy but with a new attitude of longing and pleasure. Realise that banks are not there to rip you off but they’re there to give you access to all life has to offer.
If you like money, it will like you and come to you.
Focus on Money
Take three people and show them an old industrial site. A photographer will see interesting photography opportunities, a landscaper will see massive landscaping opportunities and a business person will see profitable business opportunities.
We always see opportunities that are in line with our foremost thoughts.
So, refocus. Start thinking about money and the lovely benefits it can bring you – not the misery it has brought you! As you wake up, each morning, wonder what money opportunities will come to you, feel the pleasure of a rising bank account and what you can do when you have money.
If you’re thinking about money, it will begin to think of you and present opportunities that you’d never seen before.
Create a Vision for Money and for Yourself
Like you, money likes to be busy and to feel useful. It hates to be sitting around doing nothing and feeling useless.
Start creating a vision – what would you really, really like to do over the rest of your life? What assets and things would you like to have? What experiences would you like to have? What would you like to do for other people? Start writing … NOW! Keep your vision notes handy and add to them as you think of other things. This will do two things:
- By creating a vision, you’re creating opportunities for money to be useful. As you begin to create an abundant future – even on paper – that abundant future will start to happen. Money, knowing what you want it to do, will come in and get busy.
- When you create a larger plan than just the small day-to-day desires that you have, your focus changes. With a bigger vision, it’s easier to forego the “little treats” and unnecessary purchases you might make. Then, you’ll discover your bank balance is improving – it hasn’t been depleted by those little treats you didn’t need and money is beginning to flow in to help that new vision along.
Start treating money just how you’d like to be treated and you’ll be surprised at how it becomes your friend and sticks around!







